The kid had a bit of a mousy appearance- dirty blond hair that didn't stay in the pony, navy-gray clothes, a bit of a cold. He kept trying to touch the snacks before they were giving out and the teacher kept telling him 'don't touch! Don't touch that, Mike". He was sitting right next to the teacher but he got his snack second to last. Ditto for the drink (I actually pointed out to the teacher that he didn't get milk).
The other kids didn't seem to pay much attention to him, either. It appeared that he was the unpopular kid...
When the parents came to pick up their kids, Mike didn't rush to his mom like many other kids did. And I, with a sort of sick fascination, was staring her. When Mike finally got ready and came to his mother, she was very affectionate with him. She kissed Mike, and hugged him, complimented his a&c that he had in his hand.
Mike transformed from the unpopular kid into someone very dear and loved.
For some reason, though I met Mike only once, I remember his quite well. And, when I encounter someone who at best can be described as a 'nebach' I try to remind myself that not only is this someone is a human being but s/he's also someone's Mike, someone's pride and joy. And Mike deserves to be treated fairly.
Politics is not the point
1 week ago
4 comments:
Sniff. :)
I second the sniff. Such a downer. Being a mother makes you look at the world through a different filter. Every time I hear/see a kid being bullied or treated unfairly, or simply not being popular with other kids, I always imagine this kids' mother who is losing sleep over this. (Somehow it doesn't work the same for fathers, I think.)
Many sniffs. It is a downer, mainly because somehow it is a normal behavior to be nasty to "unpopular" people and "nebuch cases"; and it does not stop after high school. Respect for every human being is an integral part of our religion, and it is the responsibility of parents, and to lesser degree, teachers, to reinforce that knowledge in our kids. Yes, I know I am just a burnt out idealist barking at the big windmill, but the minute I will stop barking or getting upset about it, please smack me on the head with the nearest heavy object.
Mike feels for Mike.
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